Mdm Phua Mei Ching Pauline

22 years ago cemented our love at Fort Canning. Love u forever

For my dear wife who love flowers

Thank you to all our friends and family that came down to pay their last respects, especially given the current Covid-19 situation.

Just wanted to give you updates on what happened today (cremation day) that we think really highlights who my wife/mummy was.

As we were following the hearse today, we felt a few raindrops. When it exited from the carpark, the “drizzle” stopped. As we were making our way to Mandai, we couldn’t help but notice just how beautiful the sky was. The clouds were so “3D” and “full of poofy goodness” and can you just imagine her dancing and diving among that? Because we can.

To us, this really was her telling us that though we may be sad right now, she’s encouraging us to look at all the small things and to find joy in them. (See also: Beauty in the World by Macy Gray ;)) We’ll also attach a few pics that we took after we left Mandai to commemorate just how beautiful the day was.

As we went for lunch, it was quite funny it was almost like we booked the whole restaurant. But the highlight really was this otter that came onto the beach and just enjoyed itself. Kind of reminded us of her and her “Happy Can Already!” philosophy that we all can learn from. We’ll be attaching a video of the otter just enjoying itself too.

Honestly today just captured her essence and I hope you like this snippet and find comfort in it just like we did.

Death leaves a vacumn in our hearts but your love fills it. As you lay, your sweet smile gives us the peace that indeed overcomes the pain in our hearts.

Love, Lynda and Family

Dear Keng Hwee and family, I admired Pauline for her strength of character and her faith. Although no words can help ease the pain of your loss, just know that you are in our thought and prayer.

Love,

Uncle Chris and family

Dear Pauline,

Thank you for being the most wonderful mentor and thoughtful friend one can ever ask for. I'll always be grateful to you for teaching me so much both at work and in life. You are always so willing to go the extra mile to make someone's day, so selfless when it comes to lending a helping hand. Your infectious laughter and wicked sense of humour continue to put a smile on my face whenever I think of all the fond memories we've shared. You'll be dearly missed and always in our hearts.

Love,

Angela

As a Neighbour, Aunty you have showed what it means to be a fighter. You were the one who remained strong and constantly encouraged and inspired many people around you. Truly you have fought the good fight of faith!

My Deepest condolences to Uncle, Kelly, Karen and family. Aunty Pauline is in good hands now and in peace. God's protection will be over your family. Stay Strong. Aunty Pauline will be missed!

"Go in peace

Go in kindness

Go in love

Go in faith

Leave the day

The day behind us

Day is done

Go in grace" -Sam Baker

My condolences to my cousins Kelly and Karen, as well as their dad.

Rest in peace Auntie Pauline. You will be missed.

May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be ever at your back. May the sunshine warm up on your face and the rain drops soft up on your fields. So until we meet again, may god hold you in the palm of his hands.

To our dearest cousin There is so much to be said and done, but God has other plans for you, you have always been gentle n kind, a cool cucumber and a good mother to your children. Whenever we reach out to you, you were always there to lend a helping hand in the best possible way u could. Though your smile is gone forever and we will never be able to see or touch you again, you have left us with beautiful memories from when we were young. These memories are now our keepsake, forever treasured and dear to us. God has you by his side now and we have you in our heart. You will be sadly missed, but never forgotten.

From your cousins: Susan, Victor,Serene, Shirley, Jane, Alvin, Zhien, Gabriel, Jun Xian, Jun Yuan, Mervyn, Tessa, Jeff, Jeremy, Jude, Julius

My earliest and fondest memories of Pauline was when both of us were in her room jumping around wildly because she was showing me how to dance. It happened more than twenty years ago but the sight of her dancing and swinging her hair freely is still on my mind – she told me to just have fun, no one will care how I look. I have always thought of her as one of my favourite fun-loving and sweet 大姐姐, and will continue to remember her this way.

Thank you for always asking me out to catch up every year even as we got older. You’ll be dearly missed. May God give her eternal rest, and strength and comfort to her family during this time.

Always in my heart,

Hui Ling

A piece of our hearts A pillar of our families A humourous bone in our bodies Our bestie, foodie, family, and inspiration You've always been,

and always will be 💜🐷🌻

Dear Keng Hwee, my heartfelt condolences to You, Kelly, Karen and Family🙏 I have very fond memories of meeting Pauline in our office in the evenings when she used to come after work to go back home with you. She was a very gentle and gracious lady. I pray to God to give you and your loves ones the strength and courage to bear this great loss. May Pauline's soul rest in peace🙏 Do take care of yourself, your daughters and family. Regards Arvinder

Dear KH, condolences to you and your family. Stay strong. Pauline is in good hands now. The gals need you ... Take good care. 🙏